Sunday, February 19, 2012
Transferring music to SD card on Galaxy Note (or Android)
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Renungan Minggu Pagi: To Forgive....or To Forget?
Masuk ke bulan Desember, kita juga masuk ke bulan Natal. Bagi yang ngerayain Natal, ini (mestinya) bulan yang suci dan penuh rahmat, selain juga bulan spesial yang ngebawa nuansa Natal yang khas itu: Pohon natal dan lampu2 hiasan dimana2, mall2 pada sibuk dan penuh sama orang2 yg belanja kado, lagu Natal dimana2 dan kalo di Amerika, tempat saya “nyasar” 12 tahun sebelumnya, udaranya juga jadi dingin dan “crispy” yang bikin dusel2 sama si dia makin mantap. Pokoknya merry banget deh.
Tapi kali ini, bukannya “peace” dan “joy of holiday” yang saya temukan, malah nemuin hal yang ga enak. Saya baru sadar kalo mungkin saya punya musuh. Penemuan ini terjadi secara ga sengaja di Twitter waktu saya lagi baca2 timeline. Eh kok kayaknya ada satu tweet dari salah satu kontek saya yang ga bisa dibilang temen, tapi yang pasti saya berhubungan deket dengan dia karna masalah kerja, yang rada “nampol” hati nurani saya. Kenapa? Karena isi tweet dia itu menyinggung gaya hidup “seseorang”, yang kebetulan “seseorang” itu mirip banget karakternya sama gue!
Bukan, bukan saya ge-er. Kebetulan saya tau kontak saya ini emang hobi mencemooh manusia lain, dan sebelumnya saya banyak ngebaca twit dia yang isinya tiap hari – kalo boleh dibilang kasarnya – adalah mikirin kemana arah semut jalan. Pokoknya hidupnya remponnggg.....banget. Dulu juga beberapa kali saya sempet ngebaca twit dia yang isinya nyerempet2 karakter temen2 saya lainnya di lingkungan kerja itu, dan tentunya karakter saya juga. Dulu sih saya sebodo amat.
Tapi kali ini kok celaan dia sangat mengena di karakter saya ya? Right down to the details. Ini apa gue yang parno, atau emang dari dulu dia sebenarnya udah nyela gue, tapi guenya yang ga pernah sadar? Ngeliat sejarah dia nyela banyak orang, wajar dong saya jadi parno, apalagi karena emang kita berhubungan deket karena urusan kerja.
Sejujurnya selama ini hubungan saya dengan dia itu fine2 aja, atau mungkin lebih tepat dibilang kita “mind our own business.” Makanya saya jadi kepikiran sama tweet dia kali ini. Lah, emang gue salah apa sama loe?
Di rumus SOP (Standard Operating Procedure) hidup saya, celaan2 dan hina2an itu langsung saya masukin ke kategori SAMPAH HIDUP. Cara penanggulannya juga simple: cuekin aja. Ga usah dipikirin, jangan kata pake dibales segala. Buang waktu dan sama sekali ga ada manfaatnya. Tapi sayangnya, kali ini, saya jadi mayan kepikiran tentang tweet dia. Cukup kepikiran sampe bela2in nulis di blog ini. Mungkin juga karena selama ini saya ga pernah nganggep dia musuh. Saya yakin, kalo dia kebetulan baca ini, pasti dia udah guling2an di lantai. Seneng banget pastinya.
Tapi setelah saya pikir2 lagi, kalo emang bener dia nyela saya, sebenarnya dalam hal ini who is the real loser? Apakah diri saya, seperti yang digambarkan dalam twitnya, atau........sebenarnya dia?
Mau bagaimanapun juga, orang yang hobinya mencela orang lain itu pasti kedudukannya lebih rendah dari orang yang dicela itu. Kenapa? Karena dia sirik. Mungkin dia benci dengan suatu karakter dari orang itu. Mungkin dia iri hati oleh suatu kesuksesan orang itu. Apapun itu, kita tahu istilah “haters gonna hate” itu dibuat karena ada orang2 pembenci. Di dalam hidup kita pasti kita ada aja yang ngebenciin. Alasannya macem2, dari SARA sampe promosi kerja sampe pacar ganteng/cantik, dan orangnya pun bermacem2, dari orang ga dikenal di pinggir jalan sampe supir taksi sampe rekan kerja sendiri.
And you know what? It is okay to be hated by someone. We can’t please everyone. Tapi yang pasti, pembenci itu adalah pecundang sesungguhnya. Mereka ga akan pernah melampui orang yang dibencinya hanya dengan membenci.
Orang yang sukses itu pasti ga punya waktu untuk mikirin hidup orang lain, apalagi nyempetin nyela di twitter. Orang sukses ga sempet utk iri hati kepada orang lain, karna mereka udah sukses. Orang sukses akan lebih berminat kepada hidupnya sendiri, either untuk improve atau maintain kesuksesannya. Dan yang pasti, orang sukses itu ga punya waktu utk update celaan di Twitter tiap jam, seperti “musuh” saya ini yang saya tahu persis kebetulan bertingkah begitu.
Maka dari itu, hari ini saya mendapat pencerahan secara ga sengaja dari orang ini. Dia hampir aja berhasil menarik saya ke level serendah dia, dan ikut2an membenci dia. Untung saya buru2 sadar bahwa mau bagaimanapun dia mencela saya – mau ke seribu follower dia kek, mau ke temen2 mutual kita kek, mau ke bos dia kek – faktanya adalah dia ga akan pernah lebih unggul dari saya. Dia ga akan pernah bisa melampaui level saya. Pernah kebayang Bill Gates bisa sirik sama gue? Ga mungkin pernah, karena level Bill Gates jauhhh...berada di atas level saya. He has nothing to envy from me.
Sama halnya dengan musuh2 di hidup saya ini. Saya ga punya waktu buat mikirin apa yang mereka pikirin atau gosipin tentang saya, karena kedudukan mereka lebih rendah. Malah saya harus berterima kasih kepada mereka karena setiap saat saya lagi sedih, lagi butuh dukungan mental, saya tinggal nyari mereka di Twitter, Facebook dll dan ngeliatin mereka melakukan hal yang sama dari pertama kali saya kenal mereka: membenci dunia sekitar mereka. Dari situ, saya bisa ngerasa kasian sama kehidupan mereka yang amat sangat tidak berarti dan sebaliknya ngerasa terdongkrak dengan hidup saya sendiri.
Haters, thank you for being there. I forgive you, but I am also forgetting you.
Happy Holidays everyone! Live well.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
HATI2 SECURE PARKING TIDAK JUJUR & KORUPSI
Friday, September 30, 2011
Getting married? AVOID THIS DECOR COMPANY FROM HELL: Mount Florist, Jl. Kelinci Raya No. 40, Pasar Baru. Name: Naomi Soeryadi, 0815-888-2364
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Puma Commander II Perf for $10!
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Blackberry OS 6 official release for Bold 9700 - my review
As for me, a major reason I extremely look forward to getting my paws on OS 6 was for none other than its touted bump in the Blackberry website browser capabilities. I think everyone on the planet agrees that the BB browser is one of the most vile, retarded things anyone has ever invented in modern time. I always felt like an idiot whenever I was trying to open a website or something as simple as google.com and finding myself staring at an improperly rendered website. It's inhumane, and in 2011 no one deserves that.
OS 6 is supposed to fix that, in addition to boasting a couple of other eye candies. And so with glee, I downloaded the software, albeit with a few scares here and there due to the spotty internet connection here in this lovely city.
Now that I've spent a good, intense couple of days playing around with the system, here's my take of this newest Blackberry upgrade for Bold 9700:
1. Home screen "panned view panes" - Similar to "tabbed" browsing in modern web browser, this feature allows you to slide to 5 different panes which are "All", "Favorites", "Media", "Download" and "Frequent" in Home screen. "All" tab is basically the traditional Home screen where everything is grouped together, while "Favorites" is a new feature that allows you to mark any application, contact, website, or anything, as favorites and it will be promptly placed in this "tab", making this basically a shortcut for all your favorite application. "Media" groups all the media application, "Download" groups all the OTA downloads and "Frequent" groups your most frequently used applications.
My take: while the visual is nice and sleek, the very concept of this is cluttered, unnecessary and it is simply trying too hard to become something it's not.
SCORE: C
2. The "Quick Access Area", however, is an entirely different story. This is ingenious and brilliant. There are two "Quick Access Area": one is situated at the very topmost, where if you click it, it'll open several useful frequently-used settings, like connections, alarm and device options; and the second one is situated just below it, where if you click it, it'll open a drop-down menu listing the newest activities: emails, SMS, missed call, calendar or BBM. No longer do I have to open each item separately when I get out from a meeting and seeing multiple notifications.
SCORE: A
3. The best part of OS 6 is its "Universal Search" feature built right into the Home Screen. I can't love it enough. Love it, love it, love it. This feature basically lets you type in anything you want to search in your phone; contact, lost email, a keyword in an email, or even things you want to look up on the internet - right on the home screen as opposed to individually go into each application and conduct your search there. I am telling you - this thing is a dream. Not only will this search feature returns your query, like a contact business card, but it will also include EVERYTHING about the query - even including those on the internet. This is one of the finest examples of seamless device-software integration.
SCORE: A+
4. Visual: AWESOME. Sleek, fluid, elegant and butter-smooth, to me the new OS is a major eye candy upgrade from the previous 5.
SCORE: A
5. Speed: faster, but also noticing several lag that may just be anomalies. Thus far, I have not encountered any major problem like the phone freezing, but I've only been using it for a couple of days. We all know that in the case of a Blackberry, a battery pull a week keeps the doctor away.
SCORE: A (so far)
6. Memory: BOO. All those nice eye candies and universal search and fluid graphics need to come from somewhere, and in this case, it cannibalizes the memory. Consider this: My Bold 9700 has an internal memory of 256MB, of which 188 MB is generally available after subtracting it for the OS. After I installed OS 6, the remaining memory available went down to just 40 MB!!! Holy cow! Say goodbye to downloading more apps.
SCORE: C
7. Browser. Saving the best for last, I can now breathe a sigh of relief with this new, long overdue web browser and webkit engine. OS 6 browser opens pages a little faster, is nice to look at, has tabbed browsing capability, and, most importantly, renders web pages CORRECTLY. No longer do I have to stare at messed-up Google web screen. I now feel that I'm a part of the 2011 netizen community. I hope RIM keeps working to improve this web browsing engine in the coming years.
SCORE: B
8. Overall system. Much has improved to a very heart-warming level, but on the same token, there are definitely rooms for improvement. I like the fluid, tighter system; how it includes some new, surprising features like the ability to monitor your memory and CPU usage real-time, but on the other hand, some basic "illogicals" remain a thorn in the system, like how I can't add an additional phone number into my existing contact. When someone calls me, and I already have him/her in my phonebook, and he/she is calling me from a new number (like office), I can't simply choose "Add to contact". I will have to copy paste his contact and manually edit his business card. Things like these seem simply illogical for a device designed for business users.
SCORE: B
VERDICT: Download it now, especially it's official and FREE! Despite several weaknesses and old-time irritants, OS 6 is major upgrade and will breathe a new life into your aging Bold 9700.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
What Thanksgiving really means... A letter from a true American and what it means to be truly grateful for being one
I Valencia
to Trees Theresia
date Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 6:13 AM
subject Happy Thanksgiving
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Hi Mom & Vada,
This Thanksgiving I'm very thankful for my life. I might not have money as much as I want, or you both here with me with Daddy by my side, enjoying the food and drinks like in the past, but I have many reasons to give thanks to God.
I'm thankful that:
- I have a very loving mother, brother, husband, two sons, father and mother in-laws, and extended families. Family IS my gold and family IS the reason why I can be who I am today.
- I have a healthy body and mind. Sounds cliche, but really it makes a difference that I don't have to go in and out doctors like some people I know.
- My families are healthy - that includes you Mom & Dado
- I have sources of income, not only from Meigi but occasional surveys, sweepstakes, checks for food from WIC, etc. However small, these are gifts from God and I sometimes wonder why I'm very lucky in life.
- Friends who care about me and my family; those who always check in with me and praying for our blessings
- I live where I am and I work where I am. Really I think God has arranged the best for me, Mel and our two kids. I'm always sad to read about those who live in unfortunate countries and/or in disaster areas
- I'm free to do what I want; as a woman I can flourish and get involved in the society and make contribution
- I have Barack Obama as the President of the country :) Not any moron
- I can enjoy the finer things in life, even for free, because of my fortunate luck winning sweepstakes, coupons, or deals no one knows about. At Sunday Bistro for example I can get 10% off every time because the owner likes me. Really, I have no idea how these things happen but they do and I feel God's gifts every time.
- I have a mother who prays for me all the time and always caring and loving
- I have a brother who always ready to lend a hand and very loving
- I have a son who is growing about 4 inches every year and very smart, and making me laugh no matter what he does or say
- I have a cute baby who is also growing and just this week started taking a few steps forward
- I have a husband who is really, really loving and caring, and never seem to get tired of taking care of me and the kids every day. He is the first one to wake up and the last one to go to sleep every day.
Even though you both are not eating turkey and pumpkin pie and be with me this Thanksgiving, but I want you to know that you are part of my prayers every day. Thank you for everything you do. Happy Thanksgiving!
Love,
Iliki